Sunday Party, or Staying Human

I started building via.email last December, an invisible agent meant to live inside your inbox and answer for you. The product has no revenue to speak of. What it produced instead was a stopwatch: the gap between one release and the next, measured not in quarters but in days.

When I began, the field was still mostly chatbots. Two months later OpenClaw shipped, and the entire category lurched from conversation to autonomy. The lag between astonishment and obsolescence had collapsed to the length of a sprint.

Micron's stock has moved something like 800 percent. Silicon Valley has cut roughly 80 percent of a certain kind of engineer. Whichever side of that trade you are standing on, the accelerant and the accelerated report the same pulse rate. Fear, it turns out, is asset-class agnostic.

I am, by training, a maker of small useless delightful things — a game shipped to the App Store in college, side projects built in an afternoon because the idea wouldn't leave me alone. AI has made me faster at this than I have any right to be. Which raised the actual question: faster at what, exactly, that won't itself be automated by the next release cycle.

Physical AI is the term for robots that do the things you do with your hands. Software agents already do the things you do with your attention. What is left is the register neither has bid for: the wanting to sit in a room with people for no productive reason.

A year ago I moved apartments and threw a party. For it I coded a small game in one long afternoon — nothing ambitious, just a prompt for eight friends on a couch. A blogger I know filmed it. The clip found tens of thousands of likes, and the comments were not about the code. They were people asking where they could get a night like that.

No agent has yet been trained to want this. That is the whole thesis, undersold as a party favor.

There is a taxonomy worth being precise about. Friday is the club, the fourth round of shots, the version of the night you reconstruct secondhand the next morning. Saturday is the gallery opening, the tuxedo, the watch worth mentioning, a room full of people performing acquaintance. Sunday is none of that. Sunday is a couch, one song on loop, a glass of wine going warm, and a conversation that starts in gossip and ends somewhere close to confession.

I have spent enough years moving between countries to notice the arrogance built into a single lifestyle mistaken for the default one. Virginia is not Osaka. A province two hundred kilometers from where you grew up already disagrees with you about what a good evening is. The people I've met who seem, by any honest measure, to be living well all seem to have arrived, independently, at some local version of Sunday.

So Sunday Party is not a rebrand of hosting. It is a bet that the thing least exposed to automation is also the thing most starved of investment: unoptimized time with people who already know you, spent on nothing that scales.

The game from that first night still runs in a browser tab somewhere, half-finished, coded faster than it deserved to be, asked for more than either of us expected. It was never about the app. It was about the couch it was played on, and who was still there when the song looped back around.